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About dancing
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If dancing isn't specifically what you came to do in a night-club, then dancing
isn't really what you should be concerned with. Dance your dance, then extract
her to a quiet and private place and start working your magic:) You could of
course get some initial attraction already going on the dance floor if your
moves are good - smiles, eye-contact, maybe even some initial kino - but then
again, maybe not. You know your stuff and you know it works, but dancing can
only be helpful at best, it is not the way of achieving your goal. So have fun
dancing, but keep your ultimate goal (be it a #close, a *close, feeling her up
or tonguing her down, making her come right there in the club or taking her home
with you:) in mind.
The exception to this rule are the so-called kino girls. They LOVE being touched
and they love to touch you in return. Should you happen to hit the dance-floor
with a girl like that - don't leave, keep dancing, have fun holding and grinding
each other:) Once the touching and kissing gets really intimate, you can change
venues and no excess talk is needed:) Chances even are, she woulnd't be very
receptive to any "talking" strategies anyway - while you are busy patterning or
eliciting values, all she is thinking is: "Why isn't he touching me? Why does he
just keep talking?".
As for the rest of the girls, the amount of time you need to spend on the
dance-floor depends on how well you dance. If you're good, dancing is an easy
way of attracting girls - you can easily slip in with the most beautiful of
girls on the dance-floor plus have everyone else on and off the floor check you
out. If however you are average, do as suggested in the beginning - do your
dance, then move to a quieter place to have a soul-to-soul, heart-to-heart and
eventually a body-to-body discussion:)
Update. Jake Thomson, ASF: "A woman I know & trust
advised me one time that in her humble opinion, if man can't dance, he probably
can't fuck either. Think about it. Being able to dance well demonstrates that
you are comfortable in your body and know how to use it with precision and
control. I know from my own experience, limited though it may be, that if a
woman can't dance - she generally can't fuck very well either. If she dances
well, it's a pretty good bet she knows how to fuck also. So it's one of my tests
for fuckability."
Dancing is an ancient pre-copulation ritual. It has been and in many parts of
the world is still being "officially" used (some tribes in Africa,
South-America) as the primary criterion for selecting a partner to copulate
with. Unofficially though, you can see the same thing happening each night in
every club/bar:) So one more reason NOT to waste your energy on dancing unless
you know how to dance. Or one more reason to LEARN to dance:)
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